The Diary of a Unicorn is a blog about the experience of Tracy Gavin and her journey as a unicorn (a female, bisexual, swinger) in the world of the adult swinging lifestyle.
Sunday, June 14, 2015
Friday, June 12, 2015
Play Date with M and "The Liberator"
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Thursday, June 11, 2015
Upcoming play dates
Tonight I have a play date with M who I last played with a couple of weeks ago. I really like him. He's good looking and charming and great in bed. Since we have played once before I expect this one to be down and dirty, really getting into what we like together.
M also asked if maybe we can add another couple to the mix next time. I'm all for that. The more the merrier. I have some people in mind, but one couple in particular, M & L. They are great friends and great lovers and swingers in a group situation. Looks like things are going to be busy over the next few weeks.
I also have an overnight play date scheduled with W for Saturday. I haven't done an overnight in who knows how long, so this will be interesting. W and I have been friends with benefits for many years, but we haven't seen each other in a few weeks. The interesting thing about our playtime is that we both really enjoy mutual masturbation just as much as fucking. We also enjoy watching porn together, so that should be fun. I am looking forward to both of these things.
And then in a couple of weeks I have back to back weekend small group parties, which should be a blast. Three or four couples at each one. Woo Hoo! I need some woman time, too, and it's hard to find single Unicorns, as you all may already know.
So the dance card is getting full, and I'm loving it. Hope to have some fun stories over the next few days. Stay tuned...
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
P.S. Just thought I would add a regular picture of what I normally look like in regular clothes for those of you who might be interested.
M also asked if maybe we can add another couple to the mix next time. I'm all for that. The more the merrier. I have some people in mind, but one couple in particular, M & L. They are great friends and great lovers and swingers in a group situation. Looks like things are going to be busy over the next few weeks.
I also have an overnight play date scheduled with W for Saturday. I haven't done an overnight in who knows how long, so this will be interesting. W and I have been friends with benefits for many years, but we haven't seen each other in a few weeks. The interesting thing about our playtime is that we both really enjoy mutual masturbation just as much as fucking. We also enjoy watching porn together, so that should be fun. I am looking forward to both of these things.
And then in a couple of weeks I have back to back weekend small group parties, which should be a blast. Three or four couples at each one. Woo Hoo! I need some woman time, too, and it's hard to find single Unicorns, as you all may already know.
So the dance card is getting full, and I'm loving it. Hope to have some fun stories over the next few days. Stay tuned...
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
P.S. Just thought I would add a regular picture of what I normally look like in regular clothes for those of you who might be interested.
Saturday, June 6, 2015
Feeling a little frustrated...
So yesterday was a frustrating day for me. I just wonder what is up with some guys? It's not the couples or the women, it always seems to be the guys who irritate the hell out of me sometimes. I had two dates scheduled yesterday. One was a first time coffee meet and greet. The other was a sex play date.
C and I had a sex play date scheduled for a week or so. It was supposed to be last night. We had already met once in person, and the chemistry seemed to be good, and he immediately wanted to get together for a sex date. I was having some dental work done, so we scheduled it for about a week away. I was clear that I could not host so he would either have to host himself or find a place for us to go.
C and I had chatted a lot. In fact, he had been pestering me all week trying to move up the play date, but I had other commitments. I'm big on confirmations, so the day before I asked him if we were still a go for the next day and his response was that he had to cancel because he had stuff come up and was broke. I guess that means he couldn't afford a hotel for us and didn't have another location. I was quite frustrated and a little disappointed.
The coffee date was a first time meet and greet. M picked the day and time, Friday at 3:30 at Starbucks. He even confirmed around 12:00 that things were still on. So I take the time to do all my girly stuff like hair and makeup, etc. At 3:15 he texted that he was running late. I was willing to give it just a bit. I tried to call him at 3:35, and he texted that he was on a work call. Finally at 4:00 I texted him and told him that I was out, done, that this was ridiculous. He sent me back a text saying that work was crazy, he was sorry, and could we please reschedule.
So help me out here, folks. Should I let either of these guys reschedule? I'm thinking no because I hate having my time wasted. I could have made other plans. I would love to hear your comments and feedback here on whether or not I should give either/both another chance.
Since I was already "prettied up" I decided to take a few pictures. I'll attach one here in case you are a new reader and are wondering what I look like. Let me know your thoughts on C & M and whether they should be given a second shot.
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
C and I had a sex play date scheduled for a week or so. It was supposed to be last night. We had already met once in person, and the chemistry seemed to be good, and he immediately wanted to get together for a sex date. I was having some dental work done, so we scheduled it for about a week away. I was clear that I could not host so he would either have to host himself or find a place for us to go.
C and I had chatted a lot. In fact, he had been pestering me all week trying to move up the play date, but I had other commitments. I'm big on confirmations, so the day before I asked him if we were still a go for the next day and his response was that he had to cancel because he had stuff come up and was broke. I guess that means he couldn't afford a hotel for us and didn't have another location. I was quite frustrated and a little disappointed.
The coffee date was a first time meet and greet. M picked the day and time, Friday at 3:30 at Starbucks. He even confirmed around 12:00 that things were still on. So I take the time to do all my girly stuff like hair and makeup, etc. At 3:15 he texted that he was running late. I was willing to give it just a bit. I tried to call him at 3:35, and he texted that he was on a work call. Finally at 4:00 I texted him and told him that I was out, done, that this was ridiculous. He sent me back a text saying that work was crazy, he was sorry, and could we please reschedule.
So help me out here, folks. Should I let either of these guys reschedule? I'm thinking no because I hate having my time wasted. I could have made other plans. I would love to hear your comments and feedback here on whether or not I should give either/both another chance.
Since I was already "prettied up" I decided to take a few pictures. I'll attach one here in case you are a new reader and are wondering what I look like. Let me know your thoughts on C & M and whether they should be given a second shot.
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
Thursday, June 4, 2015
Am I A Cougar?
I've been giving this topic some thought, and I want to know what age difference between older women and younger men makes a woman a cougar? I never really gave it much thought until I joined the site Cougarlife.com and started receiving a lot of emails and such from really young guys.
For me, at age 50, I try to keep my sexual exploits to men age 35 and up. So am I a cougar? I do occasionally break that guideline, dipping into the lower 30s and even the upper 20s on a rare occasion, but the sweet spot for me is really 35 - 45 year old men (and women.)
I am not looking for a traditional relationship, but I do like to be able to have fun both in and out of the bedroom, and I like men who can carry on an intelligent conversation. When I venture into the under-30 age bracket and try to even have a text conversation, I get a lot of "mmmkay" or "hey" remarks. I also get a remarkable number of emails from young men looking to me who want to lose their virginity. I don't want to be a teacher!
Granted, I get a lot of stupid emails from men over 45, but many of them contain words of more than one syllable (even if spelled incorrectly.) So back to my original question...what age difference does a cougar make?
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
For me, at age 50, I try to keep my sexual exploits to men age 35 and up. So am I a cougar? I do occasionally break that guideline, dipping into the lower 30s and even the upper 20s on a rare occasion, but the sweet spot for me is really 35 - 45 year old men (and women.)
I am not looking for a traditional relationship, but I do like to be able to have fun both in and out of the bedroom, and I like men who can carry on an intelligent conversation. When I venture into the under-30 age bracket and try to even have a text conversation, I get a lot of "mmmkay" or "hey" remarks. I also get a remarkable number of emails from young men looking to me who want to lose their virginity. I don't want to be a teacher!
Granted, I get a lot of stupid emails from men over 45, but many of them contain words of more than one syllable (even if spelled incorrectly.) So back to my original question...what age difference does a cougar make?
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
Wednesday, June 3, 2015
Marriage Proposal Via First Email? WTF
If you have read my books you know that I love including some of the best, worst, funniest, and strangest emails I get from people on various dating/sex sites. Well the weirdest one I got yesterday actually included a marriage proposal. I have never heard from this guy before or chatted with him or met him. Here is what the email said:
Hello beautiful , How are you , i like your profile , and am really interested in you , i will be very glad if you accept me to be your husband , am a military man in US, well i dont know much about this site , so it would be nice to have your email so that i can send you my pictures for you to see me thank you , stay sweet , hope to hear from you .
I just copied and pasted that, hence the lack of punctuation or anything else. Do guys really think someone is going to respond to this? Seriously? Give me your opinion.
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
Hello beautiful , How are you , i like your profile , and am really interested in you , i will be very glad if you accept me to be your husband , am a military man in US, well i dont know much about this site , so it would be nice to have your email so that i can send you my pictures for you to see me thank you , stay sweet , hope to hear from you .
I just copied and pasted that, hence the lack of punctuation or anything else. Do guys really think someone is going to respond to this? Seriously? Give me your opinion.
Have a sexy day!
XoXo
Tracy
Monday, June 1, 2015
Play Date With A New Couple
Yesterday I played with a new couple that I met recently. What a great couple. We went to their house and chatted for just a bit then headed upstairs for adult play time. He is the more experienced of the two, and she is just getting her feet wet. She really wanted to experience the sensuality of a woman's touch, and I was happy to oblige.
We started off, L and me with our clothes on, just kissing. Her mouth was so soft. There is just something about kissing a woman that really does it for me. It's a different feeling than kissing a man. Yes, I kiss girls, and I like it. We kissed for a while then decided the tops needed to come off. I loved feeling her curvy body and large breasts against mine. Her nipples were even more sensitive than mine are, so I enjoyed sucking and pinching them as much as she did.
At first D was standing back and enjoying the show, giving a few directions, but soon he joined in. We all realized we had too many clothes on so they started coming off quickly. I asked L if she minded if I went down on her, and she said that she would like that, so down I went, and it was wonderful and wet and tasted great.
D was no longer a silent partner, getting sucked and stroked by L at the same time. We changed positions a few times, and L had said that she had never given oral sex to a woman, so I would be her first. I would have never known. She was good and made me come.
After a few other variations we ended up with L going down on me while D fucked her doggie style and we were all ready to orgasm. There are a lot more details to this story, so be sure to pick up my fourth book when it is out. Until then, let's just say it was a very happy ending for all.
Leave some comments and feedback. Would love to hear from you here or email me at tracy@diaryofaunicorn.com.
Have a sexy day!
XOXO
Tracy
We started off, L and me with our clothes on, just kissing. Her mouth was so soft. There is just something about kissing a woman that really does it for me. It's a different feeling than kissing a man. Yes, I kiss girls, and I like it. We kissed for a while then decided the tops needed to come off. I loved feeling her curvy body and large breasts against mine. Her nipples were even more sensitive than mine are, so I enjoyed sucking and pinching them as much as she did.
At first D was standing back and enjoying the show, giving a few directions, but soon he joined in. We all realized we had too many clothes on so they started coming off quickly. I asked L if she minded if I went down on her, and she said that she would like that, so down I went, and it was wonderful and wet and tasted great.
D was no longer a silent partner, getting sucked and stroked by L at the same time. We changed positions a few times, and L had said that she had never given oral sex to a woman, so I would be her first. I would have never known. She was good and made me come.
After a few other variations we ended up with L going down on me while D fucked her doggie style and we were all ready to orgasm. There are a lot more details to this story, so be sure to pick up my fourth book when it is out. Until then, let's just say it was a very happy ending for all.
Leave some comments and feedback. Would love to hear from you here or email me at tracy@diaryofaunicorn.com.
Have a sexy day!
XOXO
Tracy
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